Brandy,

Yes, I am getting a lot of good advice. I am so grateful to have all this input!!

And yes, it obviously meant more to me than to him. I’m mad at how he’s been handling things whilst with her. Everytime I’ve met him it’s been the same flirtation from him, compliments about my appearance etc etc. Once or twice we almost ended up sleeping together, and he didn’t say a word about still being with her until we almost had sex, whilst the next minute he lets me know I should be careful about what I’M doing since he has a girlfriend. When it’s really he that has no self-control. This has really messed with my sense of closure and it not meaning anything to him. So yes, it has been hard to accept that he doesn’t care about me. Mixed signals and no accountability.