Dear Anita,

thank you!!! That´s the point I always forgot to think about. This really helped. It feels better now to think about all of this, he should be happy when I´m happy. If he´s not, then he doesn´t love me as much as I thought. So I am allowed to be happy, because that would make him happy as well, if he loves me.

Thank you so much for all of your help. This conversation has changed so much for me in a very positive way.

I hope to be able to be more kind to myself, remind myself that I deserve to be happy and deserve to be loved. Maybe that will also help with my jealousy issues I´m dealing with.

Thank you, anita!!

Lots of love, Ana