Dear Jesus:

When we suffer childhood trauma it does affect our adult relationships negatively.

When a parent rejects a boy, the boy grows up to be an anxious man who is afraid his girlfriend will reject him, interpreting her words and facial expressions as rejecting when they are not; wanting a loving relationship but too afraid to get hurt, to feel again the same hurt he felt as a boy when rejected and put down by the adults he loved so much.

I was wondering about your post regarding karmic relationships. You wrote that you feel like you learned the “greatest lesson with her” and that you’ve “set free some problems”, can you tell me what those lessons are and what problems you are free of?

* I will be back to the computer in about 11 hours.

anita