Dear RebeccaW91:

You wrote that you suffer from anxiety. It would be better for you  to  develop a relationship with a man less anxious than you, or at least a man who handles his anxiety well, so that you can feel safer in the relationship. This man’s anxiety may increase your own, not a good plan.

I suppose you can talk with him some more, ask him questions, gently, be honest with him, kindly. If you have such a conversation or conversations with him, in person or online, please do  share and I will read and reply to you when I am back to the computer, in about sixteen hours from now. Maybe other members will reply to you as well.

anita