That’s correct I did post a while ago and wanted to tell her but I lost my nerve as I was worried about causing her upset after the guy told me she has anxiety and panic attacks , I realise this may well not be true and even if it is he is the one in the wrong but I didn’t want to cause hurt.

However I’m now thinking this over again as I have become aware he has been trying to meet other women online again saying he was single, so it’s brought up regret at maybe not saying somwtgsos sooner.

I guess I’m just quite a sensitive person too and don’t like upset but it’s obviously bothering me and I feel for her too .