Dear Janice:

No, you are not wrong to not show him your phone. Even if he paid for your phone and for the service, still, you will not be wrong to not show him your phone.

When a person tells you: you are “stupid.. dirty and impure” and I love you-

– he is saying to you: I love you even though you are stupid, dirty and impure, so remember that, remember that you don’t deserve my love, and act like you know it. Don’t look at me like I am your equal, look at me as someone superior to you who is kind to you, the inferior one.

And I “will love (you) forever” for as long as you remember that you are stupid, dirty and impure, forevermore.

If he marries a woman who is clean and pure (a virgin), she too  will have to agree that she is stupid, at the least, so that she will know her place, inferior to him.

– and if he does marry a virgin, he may want to continue his relationship with the impure one, because he feels love for you, after all. I hope you don’t allow that to happen.

What do you think about what I wrote here?

anita