Dear Cali Chica:

She made it up, that you were a difficult child so to evoke sympathy for her difficult … fate in life, having an alleged crying, loud baby on top of her tragedy of being married to a medical doctor who does not help her clean the house and take care of her alleged difficult child. I suppose that to make herself sound believable, in the face of the fact that in company, it could be observed that you were not the crying, loud child she said you were.. she came up  with the lamb and lion story, to explain to others why you weren’t what she said you were when in their company.

The work we are doing here is difficult. As I communicate with you I look into myself, my own life, my own softness and hardness, this is exhausting.

Regarding your sister…  I hope she is okay and will be okay, but if she gets into some kind of trouble, please don’t rush yet again to  help her. Wish her well, that is all.

I will soon take a break, you are doing an excellent job, Cali Chica. You are indeed amazing!

anita