Dear Nichole:

You are welcome and no need to apologize to me, you can post any time that is convenient to you- I am okay with your timing!

You are proud of yourself and I am proud of you too, for working as hard as you do and saving money for the purpose of making your dream of owning a small condo come true,  as well as for doing all you can to heal and get better.

“I know should I ever be desperate and need help my family will be there. Any one of them”- it is often the case that family injures an individual family member and then offer their help with the recovery of the injury.

– better prevent injury from happening than allow it to happen and then get help to recover.

I understand that you love your brother Daniel dearly. But I am concerned about your desire to have a relationship with him, concerned that he will ask you for money or that you will offer it to him once you are…  under-the-influence of your love for him.

You are considering reaching out to him. Why has he not reached out to you?

anita