Yes you are very correct!

so since I moved out 4 years ago Me and my father are normal with each other! He’s nicer to me because we don’t see each other that often! But I witness him being very frustrated with my brother and sister who he verbally insults everyday! I know that he is very unhappy and he feels like he sacrificed his career to be a father and now has to work a shitty job to survive instead of living his dream of becoming an engineer! And he always let his frustration out on us! That’s why my mother defends him and says to me that I should accept him and that I can’t change him and that he’s worked really hard to provide for us! But yeah we don’t have a father and daughter relationship! We’re not close and probably never will