Dear Tenna:

I asked about the games but I am not familiar with gaming at all but am familiar with gamers, so I wasn’t able to benefit from the titles of the games and gaming glossary. (You didn’t have a way of knowing I wasn’t familiar with these things when answering 2-3).

To try to get something out of your answers to 2 & 3, I will paraphrase what I did understand: he likes Fantasy games based around teamplay- does that mean he likes team work, a number of individuals working together for the purpose of achieving an objective that will benefit all?

“He really enjoy playing with other people”, so team work? And he enjoys planning how to achieve an objective (“come up with a strategy or tactics..”)?

Regarding #1, he likes to watch movies about super heroes. Did you notice him trying to be some kind of hero in his life outside movies and games, be it in small ways, or ways that appear not too impressive, but still?

You wrote regarding his mother that he “often help her out by carrying the groceries or cooking”- did he tell you that or did you observe that when you visited him? Will you tell me more about what he told you and what you observed regarding his relationship with his mother, how she treats him and what he thinks and feels about her?

anita