Dear Connie:

September 3- 5, 2017, you shared about this man, your ex boyfriend: “During the course of our relationship, I caught him lying many ties, oftentimes including lies that’s not important or relevant to  our relationship. I got tired of confronting because it only led to fights, or his so-called drama. Eventually I lost count of how many times he lied to me… it didn’t occur to me till recently that I started to realize my insecurity was actually caused by his dishonestly… The lies I can immediately name: … his phone was stolen so he couldn’t contact me, his car was smashed the night he disappeared, etc… he’s a great talker, he’s good at selling things with fancy words”.

Earlier this week, May 2019, he texted you that “he missed me every day and was glad that I was happy. He said our breakup had completely broken his heart. And he hadn’t moved on yet…”-

– maybe he is lying, maybe it is his drama, him “selling things with fancy words”?

anita