To Inky, I think you are spot on: I have become her issue of choice. So does my husband and mother. She has ‘openly’ said she is unhappy about a number of aspects of her life, especially her relationship. Yeah I will let her come to me. I do miss her though. I do not know why she is so angry. I gave her my opinion and she did not like it.

To Anita: I did not necessarily want her to leave her husband and get with my friend, I just want her to be happy what ever that looks like. She is not happy with her husband, she starts fights with him in front of anyone present. Its very uncomfortable! I think she wanted her husband to get fed up with her and leave but he wont.

To Antonov: How would I feel? Im not sure, because I would not be in denial to begin with.

To Mark: I am giving her space and waiting.