Dear Gregory:

No, don’t give any money to the household of your estranged wife, that includes her mother and all who live there under the authority of her mother. If you see the primary school boy, your estranged wife’s brother hungry, and you have food to give, then feed him. Same as if you see any person hungry with no way to eat.

Like I wrote, you are not responsible to that household, to the estranged wife, her mother, her sister, brother. You are only responsible for your son and yourself. On top of it, you have the responsibility we all have, if we come across hungry people, starving for nutrients, then feed them, if we come across people in the cold, give them a blanket and so forth, according to our ability.

anita