Dear Karina:

“how do I stop caring that they are ostracizing me?”-

-it is  never pleasant to be ostracized, no one likes to be ostracized, disliked, rejected… ignored. None of these things feel good. I don’t know if you can stop caring but maybe you can care less, when you think: someone is ostracizing somebody every hour, every day, everywhere. These very people ostracizing me are ostracized themselves (or have been and will be) by someone else.

We all have to live with this reality, in this reality, including myself, ignored by some, disliked by others.

anita