Dear Dan:

Reads like a nice friendly work relationship between you and her.

Be aware of your jealousy regarding other men flirting with her at work. Jealousy/ competition with other men is a strong element in you, rooted in childhood (previous thread). If you continue this friendship with her, if the two of you get closer, explain to her your feelings regarding other men. Maybe she will understand and accommodate you by behaving around other men in such ways that will make you feel comfortable, not worried, anxious and/ or angry.

* I will be back to the computer in about 12 hours from now.

anita