Hi Alizee 2007,

You have met a kindred spirit – peace, friendship, known him forever.  You have been brought together for a reason.  I would love to be able to tell you why but I can’t.

There is nothing wrong with telling him that you are single but would love to be in a loving relationship.  He may then open up to you and discuss his relationship status.  There is nothing wrong with telling someone you like them – how else is he going to know?  There could be all sorts of reasons why he hasn’t asked you out – he might be fearing rejection or think that you are not interested because you haven’t given him any clues, for instance.

Are you just “chasing ghosts”.  If you don’t try, you don’t know.  Your obsession is causing you pain, frustration and feelings of powerlessness.  Reclaim your power and take things one step at a time.  He really won’t mind that you are on a lower rung of the ladder.  If it’s not a problem for him, then it’s not a problem.  It could even be a plus.

Let him know that you are “interested” and see how it goes.

Peggy