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Thanks Anita and Valora for responding!
Well the last girlfriend he was with he said he was with her for about 6-7 months. He told me he didn’t really feel that emotional connection with her like he does with me. He said that she was immature and not on a good path and that he doesn’t even like her! Mean while he is out here liking her photos and texting her. Which just makes me so frustrated like why go out of your way to tell me this information if you are going to continue talking to her. Sometimes I feel like guys hold on to the ex girlfriends because of a ego related thing. Its just so upsetting because he did seem interested but as soon as I tell him how I feel he can’t take the time to listen to me. I feel like in his mind he wanted to like do all these nice things together and be there for me but then like his actions wouldn’t fully match his words. I just feel like this is so ridiculous and everything could be fine but communication is a two way street and I guess I just need to accept that he isn’t wanting more or whatever. I hate that I feel insecure about this. I should be proud that I stood up for myself.
Thank you
Kylee