I am going to add more.

It is important that YOU did not do anything to get this bad luck birth, to be born into this.

Your mother said often, our luck is bad, and we had a bad birth.  Well she is right, but she told you in the wrong way – she is responsible for perpetuating any badness onto you.  She was fully responsible, she had the ability to protect you and make you feel good/safe/happy/secure – hence lucky – but she did not.

You had this bad luck solely because of her.

You did nothing wrong, but that does not mean the reality is any easier to swallow.  As you grew you focused on good that happened, just like your mother focused on all of the good in her childhood in India.  She left out bad, or injustice, or negativity her parents put on her.  Just like you do/will.  It is more about noticing the reality of it.  You didn’t cause it.

It is your reality to be unlucky.

Change the narrative, accept the unluckiness – then slowly slowly you can begin to feel : good/okay/safe one day.