Dear Karina:

I think that you made the right choice to not respond to her.

“I apologized thee times… poured my remorse into an email”. Her response: “she never accepted… she ignored me completely… ostracizing me”-

– responding to her email, taking the “high road”- is not really taking a high road at all, it is taking a low road: submitting to mistreatment, sending the message: it is okay for you to not accept my repeated and sincere apologies, to ignore me, to ostracize me.

But these things are not okay. So do take the high road, the assertive road of self esteem and respect.

anita