Hi Manon,

You have a husband and children that you love.  Your husband is not accountable for his sister’s spiteful behavior.  She has pulled this stunt twice – ask your husband if he will still excuse her after the third time.  Has he spoken to his sister on this subject?  Has he told her how upset you are?  He probably just wants to keep the peace.

This behavior comes from jealousy.  Shrink it down to size and don’t let it bother you so much.  Display your own photos of your much loved children, yourself and your husband.  There is no reason for anyone to think that you should divorce your husband over this – it’s far too trivial.  See it as it is – someone being trivial/jealous/spiteful towards you and your family.

Peggy