Dear S:

I like the way you put it. Usually I don’t like the use of the word f*** but in this case it fits nicely. Do focus on your career, after all it is your career that will pay your bills, as this man..  will be paying his  mother’s bills. More than paying your bills, your career is an opportunity for you to live a better and better life, free, unlike if you married this man and found yourself owned by his mother.

Opportunity and freedom- and you will indeed be just fine!

anita