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Peggy
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Hi Austin,

I’d just like to say that I don’t think it’s entirely your fault that your ex girlfriend has stopped all contact.  Initially, you told her that a long distance relationship was not for you but she insisted on keeping in contact with you and basically dictating terms.  When she met someone new, she was ready to move on but you weren’t.  Again, she has dictated the terms.  She wants nothing more to do with you.  You need to take this as the truth and move on from it.  There is no good way to end a relationship and those things can’t be unsaid.  It used to be good between you and now it isn’t.  For your own sake, you have to accept this.

I really hope you meet someone new soon.

Peggy