Dear Karen:

Yes, I think you were ghosted. The start of his ghosting you was when he entered your home and didn’t answer your question about how his evening was.

If this is the first time he behaves this way, not answering you and ignoring you for fifteen minutes or so- the start of his ghosting- reads to me that he entered your place Wednesday having already decided to pack up his stuff and leave. He wasn’t looking forward to the event of packing his stuff,  afraid that you will get angry, that you will hurt him in revenge, so he armed himself with rage against you, entered like an angry warrior, ready for a fight and proceeded from there.

Interesting he took a shower first. Maybe he felt that he will be more comfortable as he proceeded with his plan, after a shower, refreshed.

Did he in the past ignore you like he did, not talking to you while you tried to talk to him?

anita