Dear Yarina:

“I don’t know if he’s always been like that- distant at the beginning”- no human is distant from the beginning because we are very much social animals by nature, craving human interactions. We become distant and closed because we get hurt early on, as children, but other people.

I noticed early on, Yarina, that you are an angry woman. I don’t think at this point that it is a good idea that you date this man because your anger persists and is very strong. You take this man’s shy and reserved behavior personally, as if .. he is your father who was distant from you.

Do you remember being angry at your father for rejecting your love for him?

anita