Hi Anita,

I introduced them to each other when we were fresh out of school and during this short period between school and college I went to parties with them. I noticed there were alcohol, drugs and men around but we wouldn’t indulge in these things at the time. We were kinda naive and young but soon after college started for me and I opted out.

I think I used she and they because after that, the two got really close and I wasn’t part of their lives anymore – this is when I distanced myself. They got cars (meaning more mobility), money and they were legal so the parties became heavier and that’s when the drugs and casual sex became normalized.