Dear loveandkisseszaphod:

I think you did well to not contact him.

I noticed that in your original post you referred to him as a “naïve partner”, and you wrote about him: “He usually doesn’t know what to do in certain situations”-

– if this is the case, then it would have made sense if he listened to his less naïve partner (you) in regard to what it is he should be doing in certain situations. Problem is, he didn’t want your guidance, and he didn’t want “to change for anyone.. doesn’t want anything from life”-

.. doesn’t want anything from life= not your guidance and not your comfort, which is why I figure it is a good thing that you didn’t contact him so far, no matter how much you miss him and feel for him.

anita