Hi Sarah,

It’s normal to be “crazy” and emotional when we’re young. I see it two ways:

1. Next time, don’t act “crazy”. Keep your cool.

2. On the other hand…If he can’t handle it when you’re “crazy”, at your worst, then he’s not relationship material either.

It’s super interesting you prophesied the demise of the relationship so much that you booked a solo trip from it! Do you REALLY want to go?? You don’t have to, you know. Yes, it could be a great adventure in a new place but it could also be you alone in a strange place grieving a breakup.

My advice is not to reach out to him. Let him reach out to you. Maybe the friendship can be salvaged, and if you play it cool maybe next year you BOTH will be ready for each other. Don’t mention the relationship fiasco again to him. Make him think HE’S “crazy”.

Best,

Inky