Hi Chloe,

I think it’s totally understandable how you feel hurt and betrayed by this guy. It’s a very good thing you found out about this now, though, before you got even deeper into it, because if he’s cheated on his to his girlfriend a bunch, he would do it to you, too. Just know it has nothing to do with you or your worth as a person. At all. Or even his girlfriend or anything about her. This is all him. It might take you a bit of time to stop feeling hurt and angry, but you just have to be patient and let yourself feel and work through those feelings so that you’re able to fully let them go. But as far as the feelings of insecurity go, just try to remind yourself that his behavior says nothing about you as a person. He’s a jerk and gooood riddance.