Dear Serkan:

Within the period of nine years, she told you that you are “a decent and honest guy”. Later she texted you: “we should not see each other again”. Later she messaged you: “we can stay friends and talk as a friend”. Later you dated 3-5 times and she “was talking abut introducing me to her family”. Later you talked to her about your feelings and “she said not interested”, then most recently, six months ago, “she told me that I really have some feelings for you, but don’t have communication skills to maintain a long-lasting relationship“-

A couple of questions, if I may:

1. Do you know what she meant by what she told you six months ago (the italicized)?

2. Is there anything else she told you other than what I put together above, in my first paragraph, regarding her relationships with her family members, her relationships with friends, her relationship with you, her hopes and plans regarding her future?

anita