Dear Anoynmous:

His dishonesty is independent from you not have been “completely open” with him. You not being completely open with him does not equal dishonesty. Honesty does not mean to confess to someone everything that ‘s on your mind and heart- your thoughts and feelings are your private property, you don’t owe anyone full disclosure.

If I was in a relationship with him (and I wouldn’t be), but if I was because of some kind of a..  quarantine, I wouldn’t be open with him at all. It is not a good idea to be open with a person who lies to you and pretends to be what he is not.

I understand you feeling stressed, weak and not grounded. And I understand that because of this stress and all, you may communicate with him on social media. It’s not a terrible thing if you do, and you can tell me about it, if you do and I will not at all give you any kind of a hard time for it. I just hope that you will keep you will practive the required social distancing from him, six feet/ 2 meters!!!

And post here anytime.

anita