Hello Jane,

I read your article and looks like that you are stuck not because of your bf but because of the choices that he made. Well he is pretty selfish about his dream. Ok let’s imagine that you are going and pursuing what you really want in life but I want you to ask a question by yourself that “do you really think that after that your relationship will be as good as today ?” if yes then you can leave after the lockdown ends but if no then let’s jump to the another question “can you put your relationship on the stack for your career ?” again if yes then I think there is no confusion and if no then I want you to find a way on that both of you can agree upon. It’s hard and irritating but believe me its the only way. Both of you have to sacrifice something to be together because love is less about me its more we. Its not about 50-50 partnership its about 100-100 partnership. Jane I know that you are dealing with a very critical problem but believe me no problem in the world comes without the solution, you just have to take another and different look to the problem. I’m not suggesting you to go or to stay it’s totally your call but I just want to make a point here is that “The choices of make today will definitely show their consequences tomorrow.”

Hope you find your way.

Thank you