Dear YI:

“he went on a trip with his friends and I stayed in my city. I felt a little jealous and petty he didn’t invite me.. I wanted to be with him all the time and also be a part of his friend group… So..”you “fell out of love”-

You fell out of love not “for no reason”, but for a reason. Reads to me that the reason was that you were angry with him for  going out with his friends and leaving you out, not inviting you to be a part of the group (him and his friends).

Are you familiar with the common happening when a person cares a lot, but angrily says: I don’t care! ?

That’s how I see what happened:  you got angry at him (and scared about him leaving you when his visa expires) and you angrily experienced the I don’t care! happening.

What do you think?

anita

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