Dear Itachii:

I want to understand better, therefore I ask:

1. “I’m his first ‘real’ ‘successful’ relationship like he likes to call it”- what does he consider to be the success in his relationship with you?

2. “I have learned so much from him, I love myself more, I learned how to be understanding, patient and I learned the importance of communication. HOWEVER.. he hasn’t learned anything”-

– how did he teach you/ what did he say and do to lead you to love yourself, to be understanding and patient, and to communicate better?

– and how did he manage to teach you these things and yet to learn nothing himself?

anita