Dear Puppo:

“Isn’t it kind of emotional tricks to stop me from breaking up”?

– yes, it is cruel emotional tricks, aimed at making you feel guilty.

“How to react now… Any suggestions how to face this situation, if he starts emotionally blackmailing me to kill or hurt himself??”-

– there is only one correct way to react to his cruel emotional tricks and manipulation: end all  contact with him.

If you give in to him, if you show him that his tricks work on you, that he successfully caused you to fear for his life and feel guilty, then he will do more of the same, and maybe he will hurt himself just a bit so to make you believe that he is serious about hurting himself and scare you more.

Let him know in no uncertain terms that you are ending any and all contact with him and that you will never have any contact with him in the future no matter what. And then make sure you back your words with actions, blocking him from your phone and from any other way to reach you.

This is not a man you want to have a relationship with, not a man any woman should be involved with. Don’t live a life being his prisoner. Set yourself free. Move away from him and stay away from him!

anita