Dear gamer:

I think a no-contact summer is an excellent idea but I don’t know if you (or him) are able to make that happen. But yes, it is a good idea.

“Do you see us being together after all this?”- I think that there is a good chance because he is emotionally attached to you and he so far endured your unpleasant behavior, to say the least, without being done with you altogether.

“Will the no contact help?”- it will, but like I said I don’t know if you are can keep  it up day after day, week after week, for a few months. Also, because he is willing to talk with you during this proposed summer break, it will be very tempting for you to contact him.

But I will be glad to be surprised by you being able to keep a No Contact Summer (NCS, for short) with him. It will help if your emotional attachment to him lessens as a result, and the sooner the better. For you to be healthier, you have to need him feel that you need him less; you have to see yourself alive and well without him. Only then can you be ready for a healthier relationship with him.

anita

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