I didn’t realize how it was when I used the word “but” I didn’t think of it too much tbh. Thank you. After reading it I understand what I should do to communicate better and effectively with him and with anyone — but I’m not sure if I can do that right now.

From the last post he responded with this:

Him: Please tell me how that is realistic I miss u so much but how is it realistic

Me: I never wanted this break. I was sad all day bc we didn’t talk. I was sad, hurt, crying but that never changed my decision of wanting to be with you

Him: I never wanted to end things and I never wanted this to happen in the first place. I wanted us to be at ease with each other not each other’s necks How can I possibly see a solution right now I love you with all my heart but what am I supposed to so when things are like this

Me: would you like me to leave you alone… will that help you think things through and not be confused?

Him: what did you feel about yesterday (referring to yday’s phone call)

Me: I was sad… you want to take a 3 month break from me?

Him: I’m sad too, and there’s no number to it. I just dont want to be the same as we are now I need to go back to how things were and for that to happen we have to completely restart and revisit things some time

Me: Just so you know I love you so whenever ur ready to talk again, then lmk 🙁

Him: I hate that it has to be like this and I love you so much okay, It’s just we need to do things so we can be better in the long run

and then I asked him if we were still together even though we are taking a break. He responded saying “how can we be together when we’re trying to take time for ourselves :(”

I asked him if this was like a breakup then… and he responded “I want us to be together it all depends on how we’re feeling and doing and if we’re actually ready yo make things right”

I asked him if I was getting my hopes of (of us getting back together after the break is over) and he said “no ur completely right and not getting ur hopes up cause I want the same thing. All i’m saying is that we should take time to ourselves so we can truly make each other happy you get what I am saying?”

I asked him “isn’t it safe to assume that whenever this break ends, we can talk? this is breaking my heart, this truly sucks”

he said: “my heart is broken trust me and yes we will definitely talk. We just need some space between us for some time to restore our self love, happiness and discipline.”

So then I responded saying “If you change ur mind and want to talk and sort things out, give me a call”

He said: You can give me a call anytime”

I’m not sure what else I can say to him. I’m not sure what this means. We aren’t together anymore.

The reason why I said “if you change ur mind…” was because he asked for space so I thought if I messaged him that, eventually he can message me back whenever time comes around.

What do you think of all this? I don’t know what to think and what his response means… 🙁