Dear Sofat

This girl is yanking your chain! Let her go, you should never have begun a relationship with your pupil in the first place and she is enjoying demeaning you with stories of the many rich men she can choose between (or thinks she can) who are ‘better’ than you. She doesn’t love you and it’s likely you don’t love her, you’re just infatuated with her beauty.

She sounds very narcissistic. You will never be able to build a loving, worthwhile relationship with her. All she wants is a rich man. Do you really want someone whose ‘love’ you have to buy? Marriage with such a girl would be very painful for you, she’s just looking for the proverbial meal ticket.

Be strong. Next time she calls, don’t answer. Or tell her not to call again. One way or another, it’s important to get this young woman out of your life so that you can look for someone with whom you can build a real, loving relationship.

This probably isn’t what you want to hear, but I really believe you have to let go now.

all the best

Jan