Dear Neverdyed:

You are welcome. The situation doesn’t read promising to me at all. Reads like he is definitely not interested in the kind of relationship that you are interested in. He doesn’t restrict (the verb you used) himself from dating other women and he doesn’t restrict you from dating other men. He lives far away from you, his investment in you is even less than before, you opened up to him and “the outcomes weren’t good”-

– I want to understand better, therefore I ask: are you hoping for him to have a big change of mind and heart and discover within himself that he wants you after all as his one and only? If so, please tell me more about this hope.

anita