Dear Isabelle:

What a disappointment. Only two days ago he told you that “he wants to explore relationships with a slower start and would like to do this with (you)”.

“Part of me thinks that it’s my fault, that I came on way too strong”- he told you before that his previous relationships that followed his strong infatuation “until now, they have turned bad”- so his relationship record before ever meeting you, was not that impressive. Don’t be hard on yourself, he has his own issues.

“he was telling me that he had talked to his son and his father about me”- so soon? He came on too strong!

“Take. Things. Slowly. Next time”- I noticed only this morning, on second reading of your original post that you wrote, that you were already physically intimate with him, maybe on the very first date: “I met a  man online 10 days ago and we have seen each other twice since then… Things are very nice on the intimate level too”- yea, too soon. I think that it’s preferable to be rejected before sex than after.

Take. Things. Slowly. Next time- reads crystal clear to me!

anita