Dear Peace:

Even if he is really divorced, and even if after two years he will be sending only 10% of his salary to his son’s mother, then a relationship and marriage with him still does not read to me  like a good deal for you. I don’t see the attraction there- you mentioned nothing that expresses to me that there has been a special connection between you and him.

What I did notice is that you had him overnight in your apartment too soon, sooner than two months of knowing about him. The physical relationship happened too soon, and that’s not good for you.

I feel no  pain over the latest event of what may be a breakup between you and him. I feel sorry that you are upset, but not that this short, senseless relationship is  over.

anita