Dear Alisha:

I agree with everything that Rose of Yellow wrote to you.

You asked me regarding your do I love him or don’t I love him thoughts: “do you think that all of this may just be intrusive thoughts?”- I think that your thinking is about what Rose of Yellow suggested: “I am going to focus on this boy, do I love him or don’t I love him, as a way to avoid thinking about my mom’s health and my family stress”.

I hope that you courageously address your real life problems and make the choices that are possible for you to make, so to make your life a better life.

anita