Thanks for the insight. I have a boyfriend who is exactly the same and I cant put up with it any longer. Controlling and demanding he even this he owns my car when I’m not driving it. I let him use it but he has gotten to comfortable and now go and come as he please without notifying me of his were abouts. At first he show some sign of it but not as much. Now its all out and really pushing me away. So far I haven’t said anything yet to care of it since I want him nice and comfortable before I strike. I know he anger is from being used and take advantage of. But also he feels his voice needs to be heard since in the past it hasn’t and he was never paid any attention too. I told him once that he should be that way with me and I’m like other people. He doesn’t get it nor did he break his cycle. Do you think he can do (if willing) what you have done?