Hello Jacobus,

You are stuck in Indonesia because of Coronavirus.  There is nothing you can do about that.  You have to accept that and so does your wife.  You left your wife because of the way she was treating you.  Now you have been away from the situation for a while, it is easy to look back and see it differently but she doesn’t want you back.  This is what you have to accept.  Your marriage is over.  She doesn’t love you any more.  Stop trying to make contact with her.  Nothing you do will make her want you.  You need to move on from this and consider how you are going to rebuild your life.  These are the harsh facts.  Sorry.

Peggy