Anita,

You’re advice is amazing. Although I’m fearful that even if I change as a father my time with her has passed. I dont know how to overcome this grief.

Also, she hasn’t overcome the depression. It’s there everyday.  She wanted me to help her overcome it and I failed.

Do you think it’s a good idea if I stay somewhere else temporarily or should I stay in the home? The kids are on break currently and could stay at someone’s house for a couple of days. Thus allowing her time to herself as she’s said yesterday that she’s going to start avoiding me. I dont want her to feel uncomfortable in her own home.

Thank you.