– I didn’t understand what you meant by “cannot take it anymore” and “broke it off”. Can you explain these to me?

So my mother got a divorce after a 15 years of marriage. I meant that divorce actually, and before they got divorced, my mom was really distant. My father is a very narcissistic person, so he was treating her in a way that would prevent her from seeing her family and after losing her dad (my mom), she got depressed for like a year. She says that, I’ve stopped being in that relationship years ago when I understood that nothing is going to change. And when she had the chance, she got divorced and lost her mother as well. I can understand her but the things I’m living are nothing to her, when compared. But then again, it’s not easy, I know. All in all, this is my kind of hard.

One more thing, you wrote that your friend sent you a link to Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), suggesting that your boyfriend suffers from this disorder. Can you tell me about his most disturbing behaviors that fit the BPD diagnosis?

Actually, we’ve had a conversation about this. And he mentioned ‘Borderline’, then I’ve asked if he was diagnosed or since when he was thinking about this specific personality disorder. He replied, ‘for a while.’, turns out, as I guessed, doctors didn’t mention this but he was able to read and make connections between the symptoms and all. Sorry for the recent post, it was not accepted in the first place, so I didn’t have the chance to delete all those HTML codes that makes the reading a lot harder.

I am now going to read the last message you’ve posted carefully.