Dear Sarah:

Now you know that he is married. He is in a .. long-distance marriage (his wife lives in a different country).

No wonder he does not mind you being in a long-distance relationship (your boyfriend lives in a different country).

Now you know, and I know, that he is definitely, without a doubt, interested in having a romantic, sexual relationship with you, while he remains married, and while you remain in your relationship.

He occupied you for five hours at night (“we talked about 5 hours all night long”). The day after, he told you to sleep because you didn’t sleep the night before (“asking to sleep because I did not sleep whole night”)-

– “I just replied I am big enough and he did not have to tell me this. Just trying to be little rude”, you wrote. I think that you will need to be more than just a “little rude”. I think that he is going to aim at wearing you down, like water wears down rocks in a river- eventually, over time, the rocks break. If you lose more and more sleep talking to him at night, if you get more and more confused- that’s you breaking like a rock under the ongoing force of water flowing over it.

anita