Dear Katie:

Happy New Year to you as well! What a great therapist you have, I am so impressed. I am thinking now that if the two of you keep seeing your therapist regularly, for a few months, and the relationship does not show promising signs of healing- then it will be time to let go of bf.

This is It, Katie- as I see it- bf has no valid excuse to stop seeing your therapist with you: he needs this therapy, and there can be no better couple-therapist than yours.

anita