Dear Naaz:

For the purpose of suggesting anything useful for you to say/ do so to help your boyfriend, can you tell me a bit about him: what is his daily routine like, does he live alone, what are his relationships with his family members.. does he have friends and do they drink together, how often/ how much time do you spend with him?

Generally, I am quoting from the Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) website, aa. org: “Alcoholic Anonymous is an international fellowship of men and women who have had a drinking problem. It is nonprofessional, self-supporting, multiracial, apolitical, and available almost everywhere… Membership is open to anyone who wants to do something about his or her drinking problem”-

– on the left side of the home page, it reads: “A.A near you” and under that: “select a country” and an arrow to the right. Maybe the country you live in is on that list. Otherwise, you can find information and resources there.

anita