Hi Ryan,

I’m so glad the evening went well and that you are comfortable with the way things are.

While a part of me wants “concrete,” a piece of me takes comfort in the fluidity of our relationship.

Ryan, I have three very close long-term friendships and none of them started off as “concrete” but slowly became that way over a long period of time (many years). You’ve known her for a relatively short time (3 or 4 mos, I think?), so “concrete” at this point may create unnecessary pressure on you both. I like that there’s a part of you that is just fine with the uncertainty of what’s to come.

B