Dear Oceandrive24:

You are very welcome, anytime you post- I will read/ listen.

Good to read this: (1) “I need to do what’s best for me and my boys”, (2) “I need friendships that are nurturing and supportive and not draining, pressurising or demanding”, and (3) that you are doing what’s right for you and your boys even though it is difficult to do.

The title of your thread chosen on Jan 7, regarding this man is: “Was I wrong to offer friendship.. feeling I’ve done wrong”. What you learned since is that not only a relationship with him is the wrong choice, but also a friendship: “to walk away from (him) .. is the right thing for me to  do”, April 3.

anita